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All We Can Drink and Make Friend Can Come Alone Party in Shinjuku
Shinjuku can feel like a hard place to enter alone after dark. This Friday party solves that problem with a simple setup: show up at EXBAR TOKYO plus, choose a wristband, and use shared interests as your opening line. I like the color system because it gives shy people an easy start, and I like that games such as Uno and Jenga keep the evening from turning into a string of awkward introductions.
The price includes unlimited alcoholic drinks from 7:30 to 10:00 PM, which makes the $70 fee easier to understand. The main drawback is the format: this is a standing party, not a quiet seated dinner, and the crowd, age range, and conversation quality can change from Friday to Friday.
Key points to know before you book

- Color-coded wristbands create an easy first conversation: Choose a color linked to friendship, language practice, dating, same-gender conversation, or your own purpose.
- Unlimited alcoholic drinks run for the full 2.5-hour event: Drinks are included from 7:30 to 10:00 PM, along with all fees and taxes.
- The party is built for people arriving alone: You do not need to bring a group to take part.
- Uno and Jenga help break the ice: The games give you something to do while conversations get started.
- EXBAR TOKYO plus puts you in Shinjuku nightlife: You get a social event in one of Tokyo’s best-known evening districts without arranging private transport.
- Friday is the only stated event time: Plan around 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM and allow time to find the venue near public transportation.
Why this Shinjuku party works for solo visitors

The best idea here is not the free-flowing drinks. It is the built-in reason to speak to someone new. Walking into a Tokyo bar alone can be intimidating, especially if you are unsure how much Japanese you need. This event gives you a social framework before you arrive.
You choose a wristband based on what you want from the night. Orange signals a wish for fun, green points to language friends, pink is for singles, yellow is for talking with people of the same gender, and blue lets you write your own purpose. The system is not a guarantee of a perfect match, but it gives you a clear conversation starter.
I would treat the wristband as a prompt, not a rule. If you choose green, you can ask someone about their Japanese or English practice. If you choose orange, you can start with the lighter question of what brought them to the party. That small bit of structure matters when you are on your own.
The event also welcomes Japanese locals and people from other countries. That mix gives you more than a standard night at a foreigner-focused bar. You might practice Japanese, help someone with English, or simply talk about food, work, travel, and life in Tokyo.
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What happens at EXBAR TOKYO plus

The evening takes place at one venue, EXBAR TOKYO plus, rather than moving between several bars. That makes the plan simple. You arrive, take part in the party, and remain there for the full 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM period.
The setup is standing style. I see that as a practical choice for this kind of social event. You can move around, change conversations, and find another group without making a formal exit from a table. It also keeps the event more like a friendly mixer than a fixed dinner with the people seated beside you.
The tradeoff is comfort. If you prefer a reserved seat, a slow meal, or one long conversation with a small group, this may feel busy or loosely organized. The provided details do not promise a seated area or a meal, so book it for social contact and drinks rather than food.
Games such as Uno and Jenga are available to help people connect. These are familiar, low-pressure choices. You do not need advanced Japanese to understand the basic action, and playing gives you a natural reason to stand with a group.
The staff are described as friendly and helpful, and the event schedule is meant to run from start to finish. One especially positive feature is the sense of organization: the wristbands, games, and fixed hours all give the party a clear shape.
The crowd and conversation style
This is an international language exchange as much as it is a drinking party. You can expect people from different countries and Japanese participants who want to chat in English, Japanese, or both. Some people attend to make friends, some to practice language, and some simply want company on a Friday night.
The atmosphere is generally relaxed and easygoing. That does not mean every conversation will click. A social event depends on who attends that evening, and the crowd can include different age groups and purposes. One note from the available comments points to many people in their 30s on one night, so this is not designed only for young backpackers.
That range can be a strength. You may find a better conversation with someone outside your own age group or country. It also means you should arrive with a flexible attitude. The wristband helps, but it cannot sort every person into an exact match.
The party has a strong international feel, but you should not assume every person is equally comfortable in English or Japanese. Simple questions work best. Ask where someone is from, what they are doing in Tokyo, or which language they want to practice. You will get more from the evening if you see language mistakes as part of the fun rather than a problem.
What the unlimited drinks include

The $70 price includes all fees and taxes and unlimited alcoholic drinks from 7:30 PM until 10:00 PM. That is a full two and a half hours of included drinking, not just one welcome beverage.
From a value point of view, the fee works best for someone who plans to drink, socialize, and stay for most of the session. If you only want one drink and a quick look at the crowd, the price is harder to justify. You are paying for the organized setting, the social format, the games, and the drink plan together.
The drinks have received positive attention, with specific praise for their taste. Still, the supplied details do not provide a drink menu, food menu, or information about nonalcoholic options. If you do not drink alcohol, contact the provider before booking to confirm what alternatives are available.
Unlimited alcohol can make introductions easier, but pace yourself. You are in a standing venue, likely moving from group to group, and the event lasts 150 minutes. The most useful night is one where you can still hold a conversation near the end.
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Why the color wristbands matter

The wristbands are the most distinctive part of the format. They turn a vague goal, such as I want to meet people, into a visible social cue.
Here is how the stated colors work:
- Orange: Fun time
- Green: Language friends
- Pink: Singles
- Yellow: Talk with the same gender
- Blue: Another purpose, which you can write down
This arrangement gives you control over the kind of contact you want. A solo visitor who wants Japanese practice can choose green. Someone who wants a lighter party without a language goal can choose orange. Blue is useful if your purpose does not fit the other choices.
Do not read too much into a color. A pink wristband does not promise dating, and a green one does not mean every conversation will become a serious language exchange. Think of the system as an invitation to say hello.
You can also use the wristband to make your own choices. If one conversation is not working, move on politely and find another color or group. The standing format makes that easier than at a seated event.
Friday timing and the Shinjuku setting

The event runs on Fridays from 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM. That timing suits a night out in Shinjuku, but it requires planning. You are not attending an early evening sightseeing activity that finishes before dinner. This is the main event of your night, or at least the central part of it.
The venue is near public transportation, and private transportation is not included. You will need to make your own way there and back. A mobile ticket is provided, and confirmation is sent when you book.
I would avoid planning a far-away reservation immediately after 10:00 PM. The event may finish on schedule, but you will still need to leave the venue and reach your next stop. Shinjuku offers plenty to do afterward, but the party itself does not include a bar crawl or a second venue.
The fixed Friday schedule is also a limitation. If your Tokyo visit does not include a Friday night, this particular experience will not fit your plans. Check the date carefully before you pay.
Who will get the most from this experience

I would recommend this party most strongly to:
- Solo visitors who want an organized social evening
- People interested in meeting Japanese locals and international visitors
- Anyone practicing Japanese or English
- Visitors who enjoy standing parties and casual games
- Singles who want a social setting rather than a formal dating activity
- People who plan to use the included alcoholic drinks
It is less suited to you if you want a quiet bar, a guided tour of Shinjuku, a meal, or a small private group. It also may not suit anyone who avoids alcohol unless the provider confirms suitable alternatives.
The event is open to most people, and the booking information says most participants can take part. No special fitness requirement is stated, but the standing format is worth noting if you need a seat or have difficulty remaining on your feet.
Is $70 a fair price?

At $70 per person, this is not a cheap way to have a drink in Tokyo. You could certainly find less expensive drinks elsewhere. The value comes from reducing the social effort needed to meet people, adding unlimited drinks for the full session, and providing a set of simple activities that keep the night moving.
The strongest value is for a solo visitor. If you already have friends in Tokyo, you may not need the organized introductions. If you are alone and would otherwise spend the night searching for a friendly bar, the fee can feel more reasonable.
A 4.9 rating from 359 ratings and a 99 percent recommendation rate suggest that the format has worked well for many people. I would still read those figures in context. A high score tells you the event generally delivers a friendly social atmosphere, but it cannot promise a specific crowd on your Friday.
The best way to judge the price is to ask yourself three questions: Will you stay for the full 2.5 hours? Will you drink alcoholic beverages? Do you value an organized way to meet people? If you answer yes to all three, the cost is easier to defend.
Practical booking advice
Book with the expectation of social participation, not passive entertainment. You will get more from the night if you introduce yourself, use your wristband as an opening topic, and join a game instead of waiting for people to approach you.
The experience has free cancellation until 24 hours before the start time. You must cancel at least 24 hours in advance for a full refund. Cancellations or changes made less than 24 hours before the start time are not accepted for a refund, and the cut-off follows Tokyo local time.
The provider is Welcome Tokyo. Your confirmation arrives at booking, and you can use the mobile ticket. Since the meeting point is near public transportation but private transport is not included, plan your route before Friday evening.
Should you book this Shinjuku party?
Book it if you are alone in Tokyo, want to meet people quickly, and like the idea of unlimited drinks, language practice, and simple games in a standing bar. The color wristbands give you a useful starting point, and the fixed Friday schedule keeps the evening easy to plan.
Skip it if you want a seated meal, a quiet drink, a sightseeing guide, or a carefully matched small group. For the right person, this is a practical way to turn an uncertain night in Shinjuku into a social one. Just arrive ready to move, talk, and make your own connections.
FAQ
When does the Shinjuku party take place?
The event runs on Fridays from 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM.
How long does the experience last?
The stated duration is approximately 2 hours and 30 minutes.
Where is the party held?
It takes place at EXBAR TOKYO plus in Shinjuku, Tokyo.
Are drinks included in the price?
Yes. Unlimited alcoholic drinks are included from 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM. All fees and taxes are also included.
Can I attend alone?
Yes. The event is designed for solo visitors who want to meet Japanese locals and international people.
What do the colored wristbands mean?
Orange is for fun time, green is for language friends, pink is for singles, yellow is for talking with people of the same gender, and blue is for another purpose that you can write down.
Can I cancel for a full refund?
Yes, if you cancel at least 24 hours before the experience starts. Cancellations or changes made less than 24 hours before the start time are not accepted for a refund.
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